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Sep 24, 2026  •  Rev. Austin J. Young

You're comparing your whole life to somebody's best nine seconds.


Two sisters, one house, one husband. Leah had the children and none of the love. Rachel had the love and none of the children. Each one was holding exactly what the other was dying for — and neither could see it, because both were looking across the house.


Watch how Leah named her sons. Reuben, look at me. Simeon, hear me. Levi, stay with me. She named her children after her heartbreak.


And Rachel counted four boys and never read the names.

That's what comparison does. It shows you the count and hides the caption.


The question: Do I want this, or do I want what I think they have?


Episode 4 of Catching Feelings — 15 episodes on dating, faith, and relationships with Rev. Austin J. Young. Genesis 30:1. New episodes weekly; every one stands on its own.